Eat Deal

sammy asked:


Okay, here it is…me and him have had crushes on each other since elem school. both recently out of long relationships. We go out to diner,movies, club/bars, hang with mutual friends, hold hands, and that sort of couple stuff, for like 3 months now. We kind of consider each other friends wit benefits. problem is one day he got drunk and while we were having sex, said he loved me, not once but 3 times. I never replied. Since then, my feelings have been stronger for him, and he even said that it gets under his skin when he thinks about me seeing another guy. I told him how I felt, but he said that despite the fact that he feelings for me hes not ready for a relationship status yet so soon after his break up & said it wouldn’t be fair to ask me to wait for him. I decided to lay low and not call him or text him last week. I saw him at a club on fri and he left the girl he was dancin wit to come dance with me. he didn’t leave my side all nite n asked me if i missed him? what is his deal?

Raymundo

Dina asked:


I met a man younger then me a year ago. I am 25 and he is 23. We both work in finance, he was working temporarily in US, originally from Italy. While in the US we did many things, including going to nice dinners, concerts, etc. where I paid for the majority of things (95%). I dont mind paying when I want to treat someone, but he would ask me if I could coordinate a event for his behalf (going to a symphony, a concert, a trip, etc), and I would inevitably be paying for the entire bill..I also took him to Miami where I paid the bill for the hotel, trip. I understand he was younger, probably didnt make as much, but I was paying for essentially every meal, event, etc. He would tell me that he wanted to do these things for the memories, but a memory is always good when you dont get stuck with a hefty bill… He moved back to Italy and I have visited him 3 times. There he has treated me to one or two nice events, but essentially I would pay for every dinner totalling on average 70 euros each. He wants to visit me in the US but he is talking about doing expensive things which he wants me to coordinate, and I have the worried feeling, as it has been a pattern of his past, I will get caught with the bill this would continue. I confronted him on this, and he stated he wanted to share the costs. when I told him how much half the cost of the things he wanted to do would be (everyone knows travelling to these places in US, these restaurants, are very expensive, i.e. thousands of dollars), he said nothing, but that he couldnt afford it. he followed up by saying the salaries in italy don’t compare to the US. I feel essentially he expected me to again pay for this? do you think i am wrong? furthermore, he says he is a traditional italian man, with traditional values, the fact this pattern exists and he did nothing about it until i mentioned to him how uncomfortable i felt, makes me nervous. am i misinterpreting? its such a horrible thing to accuse someone of behaving, especially if you care for him. he said he wanted these things for us and memories, but I responded that a random dinner we had in a dingy diner one night while out, he made a big deal out of being inappropriate, and he was not “that kind of person to eat in such a place” (i ended up with that bill as well). he tells me he loves me and wants a future with me, but i have other priorities of how i want to spend my money, and I am frankly worried. also he is reluctant about introducing me to his parents, he states that it is a big step, that comes with time, yet he calls me everyday to tell me he loves me and that i am his jewel. i am attractive enough (always had boyfriends who would try to spoil me - but i would say no, as I dont really like that dynamic, even though i am in it now), and i am fairly intelligent academically (if not in social situations like this) having graduated from ivy league schools, so i would think i am a ok catch (all people are). so with the parent issue i feel disrespected, as he knows its important to me, and in my past bf’s would introduce me in a 2week-3 month period. he always asks why i am with him, and has admitted he felt inept when he thinks of my past boyfriends (the one before him was a surgeon). i tell him he has good,amazing characteristics and i left my ex for reasons, but he is always nervous i will find someone else.but i feel gullible with everything. its been one year we are together. he is also afraid about meeting my friends - who the majority are all in good finance jobs and from good schools (traits he decided to point out), and i feel that it is his insecurity again. should i be worried as I feel very worried? he calls and shows attention, but these dont seem like good signs. PLEASE HELP!

Raymundo

dat_sweetmami asked:


girl, they dance alot together and when the club was over she seen them talking all the way out and it even seemed like he wanted to get to know her even more….my friend asked her man where did they go out to after the club and he responded to a friends house. this is odd because after the club they usually go to the diner to eat, this particular night they went out to a so calls friends house..please help, i need some good advice to help me deal with this situation, he’s denying the whole thing and im just trying to do the right thing for me once and for all… i need some good advice not anything ignorant ok people…so if you can please help me out over here ill appreciate it….

Joyce

Devan asked:


This woman asked me out. She tries to sit on the table with me at a diner. She sit anyways. She wants to share her food, etc. The next day she is like can we be friends? Btw, she asked me out. I said it is possible. btw, she is older than me. I rejected her and said, it’s one shot, one kill. She made a big mistake, which she can never revert. Her chance is permanently over. She started crying. What’s the deal with that? Why would someone do such a thing, if they already like the person?
Why play this game when u know there are plenty who can replace u?
Let me clear a few things. I said it’s possible to go out when she asked me out. Then she starts molesting some guy in front of me, a day later, for a second. I wasnt very fond of that. I said, it’s over because she cannot be loyal.

Wallace

ctcougar360 asked:


what should i say to a girl, who i see very frequently. I asked her if she wants to go out for a dinner (not a date, just a diner) and then hit a club after. First she said yes, but the day before she said she cant cuz shes moving away for school. but she didnt leave that day, she left the other day (basically she kinda lied to me). should i mention nothing???? or should i be like “im mad at you..” (and keep a friendly conversation going like its not a big deal) or just be like ***????

Stewart

sammy asked:


We’ve known each other/had a crush..since elem schl. We both got out of serious relationships earlier this year, we seem to go out every weekend, clubs, diner, movies, bars. We’re intimate every weekend, we don’t use birth control, but he ALWAYS pulls out. At first it was a FWB relationship for both of us, but now I am falling so much in love with him, once while in the middle of sex, he said he loved me (3times) but I never responded, because he was drunk. Weeks later I told him how I felt, he said that he is not ready for a relationship yet, so soon after his breakup. I was married but now seperated, he mentioned to my cousin that he wasn’t ready to commit cause I am not divorced yet. Recently during sex, he for some reason, came in me, then just laid there for like 20 mins! My friends say he did that on purpose to get me prego, now I am, he says that hes not ready to be a dad! whats his deal? Im keeping the baby, but do u think we have a chance here?
I realize some of the answers are just plain mean, but that’s okay, everyone is entitles to their opinion. Yes I was married, but have been legally seperated for a while now. So no, I wasn’t cheaating on my husband. And I do realize that I made a mistake having unprotected *** with him, but we have been friends for over 10 years, and we both had agreed to not sleep with anyone else, only each other. So, I am sorry if I have offended anyone, but I thought this site was set up so that people can ask others for advice when faced with a difficult situation. Whoever has never sinned, please be the first to cast the stone!

Cory

paul_hadden36 asked:


i only can get woman who cant deal with romance not smothering i do give room im talking roses sunsets candlelight diner etc any ideas or flirts lol

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