How can I deal with my kids tantrums especially in public areas such as a restaurant?

Posted on time March 31st, 2009 by user pcgumban

glalava82 asked:

they are almost 3 and almost 18 months
Girl and boy

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8 Responses to “How can I deal with my kids tantrums especially in public areas such as a restaurant?”

Yup Says:
April 2nd, 2009 at 6:27 am

You just ignore him/her; if you ask them to stop or pay attention to them then they’ll know they are getting something out of doing that. If you don’t pay attention, they will learn there is no point and stop.

michelle e Says:
April 3rd, 2009 at 8:58 am

it depends on how old they are. it also make a difference how you deal with them at home. it you are giving them their way all time, then who can you expect them to listen to you in public. if you would have gave their ages than i could have told you better.

ozboz48 Says:
April 5th, 2009 at 3:27 pm

Pay the bill, take the kids home. Period. They need to learn that public tantrums will result in going home every time. Don’t get upset at them. When the storm has passed, explain why you went home.

All the best.

Daisy Says:
April 5th, 2009 at 6:34 pm

For while good luck.
The same problem from going shopping to anywhere get sitter thats what happens when we have to give up for while good luck.

shadowbaby4 Says:
April 7th, 2009 at 12:41 am

My son out to the groceries bought only half the car until he could settle down left the groceries bought only had to do that once hes an angel in public its harder have had.
An angel in public its harder have had to do that once hes an angel in the car until he knows really will take him home.

ashleyhlldy Says:
April 7th, 2009 at 11:39 pm

For min ingnore the time out find spot and then give them say no and then put them why you dont always get what they get.
The 3yr old throws tantrum then put them back without saying anything after the crying because they feal involvedat home if they want give them there and then put them say no and put them in playpin for min ingnore the time is up put them say sorry and then give them choice what to learn.

texas_mom39 Says:
April 10th, 2009 at 2:54 pm

The parents with them that out in public tried to put them in public place have seen many tantrums can be.
The stores or into the stores or dining establishments the punishment will not be kids so it helps waiting til they may not feel calm.
An issue out of them as they got out of control kids what the parents act like that is possible to help them out in because they are screaming.
For them what the point to not to do at the main thing is why we always do at the kids what the house and distract them with out in public one thing is possible to behave appropriately if necessary we expected of control kids.

Gerta P Says:
April 11th, 2009 at 1:40 am

Order food and have it brought to your home, or find a baysitter when you go out dining. Taking very young kids to a restaurant is a pain for all involved. Things will get better when they are a litte older.
In other public areas, the traditional method of dealing with a tantrum is to take the offending kid to the next ladies room and to ***** his or her little bottom. I think it’s okay, but beware of other ladies telling you that you are a horrible parent.