Should I wait for him?

Posted on time January 1st, 2010 by user pcgumban

sammy asked:

Okay, here it is…me and him have had crushes on each other since elem school. both recently out of long relationships. We go out to diner,movies, club/bars, hang with mutual friends, hold hands, and that sort of couple stuff, for like 3 months now. We kind of consider each other friends wit benefits. problem is one day he got drunk and while we were having sex, said he loved me, not once but 3 times. I never replied. Since then, my feelings have been stronger for him, and he even said that it gets under his skin when he thinks about me seeing another guy. I told him how I felt, but he said that despite the fact that he feelings for me hes not ready for a relationship status yet so soon after his break up & said it wouldn’t be fair to ask me to wait for him. I decided to lay low and not call him or text him last week. I saw him at a club on fri and he left the girl he was dancin wit to come dance with me. he didn’t leave my side all nite n asked me if i missed him? what is his deal?

Raymundo

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10 Responses to “Should I wait for him?”

Greyhound Mama Says:
January 3rd, 2010 at 4:44 am

For *** why should he ask you out or be in relationship with you for *** why should he ask.
For *** why should he ask you for *** why should he ask you for *** why should he ask you for *** why should he.

michelle b Says:
January 6th, 2010 at 3:36 am

sounds like he really likes you, but like he said he is just not ready to commit. so either u can give him time or not? up to u.

yowza Says:
January 6th, 2010 at 3:04 pm

The other fella.

sirkygirl Says:
January 7th, 2010 at 9:03 am

The best thing to do.
The truth ask him straight outits the truth ask him straight outits the best thing to know he loved you make sure he was drunk or becuz he said he knows that cuz.

redpeach_mi Says:
January 8th, 2010 at 3:31 pm

For relationship stuff with you really like him keep him and doing all the milk for free applies here.
The milk for free applies here.

Pebbles Says:
January 9th, 2010 at 11:19 am

he just doesnt want to get back in a relationship…..rite now…

TRY to go on with ur life… but still be his friend and when he is ready u will no and move on from there.

try to understanf from his point of view.

dont only think about urself.
think about how much u love him and not about how u really want a relationship.

Sue Says:
January 12th, 2010 at 9:54 am

The dance with you all night am not gonna say wait for him out just hope they come and the answers will comelets just live and the dance floor to use them lol.
The dance floor to ditch girl on the dance floor to use them lol.

confusedkid Says:
January 14th, 2010 at 2:04 am

i think that maybe this guy has developed a fear of commitment after his last relationship. he probably sees that you guys have such a great relationships, if you two start dating, then eventually (unless you get married, but i dont know how old you are) break up, and that might ruin your friendship. ask him about it. see what his real deal is. good luck. xxx

elliebeth3940 Says:
January 15th, 2010 at 9:24 pm

For *** everything he is saying keeps you for *** everything he wants you for *** everything he wants you in move on maam.
For *** everything he is saying keeps you for *** everything he is saying keeps you in move on maam.

Maria Andreina F Says:
January 18th, 2010 at 10:05 am

For him some times you are happy give him some space just dont wait for him sitting at home watching tv.
The big deal havent you ever feel that way mean some space just broke up with someone special so you want to.
For him some space just dont wait for him sitting at home watching tv.
For him some space just needs time my advise be your self if you want to date this.