Eat Deal

sammy asked:


We’ve known each other/had a crush..since elem schl. We both got out of serious relationships earlier this year, we seem to go out every weekend, clubs, diner, movies, bars. We’re intimate every weekend, we don’t use birth control, but he ALWAYS pulls out. At first it was a FWB relationship for both of us, but now I am falling so much in love with him, once while in the middle of sex, he said he loved me (3times) but I never responded, because he was drunk. Weeks later I told him how I felt, he said that he is not ready for a relationship yet, so soon after his breakup. I was married but now seperated, he mentioned to my cousin that he wasn’t ready to commit cause I am not divorced yet. Recently during sex, he for some reason, came in me, then just laid there for like 20 mins! My friends say he did that on purpose to get me prego, now I am, he says that hes not ready to be a dad! whats his deal? Im keeping the baby, but do u think we have a chance here?
I realize some of the answers are just plain mean, but that’s okay, everyone is entitles to their opinion. Yes I was married, but have been legally seperated for a while now. So no, I wasn’t cheaating on my husband. And I do realize that I made a mistake having unprotected *** with him, but we have been friends for over 10 years, and we both had agreed to not sleep with anyone else, only each other. So, I am sorry if I have offended anyone, but I thought this site was set up so that people can ask others for advice when faced with a difficult situation. Whoever has never sinned, please be the first to cast the stone!

Cory